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How to Choose the Right High School for Your Child

How to Choose the Right High School for Your Children

Emma Chonofsky

While preparing for your child to start high school, it may not feel as though you have a choice in what school they attend. Maybe you always accepted they would attend the local public high school, or maybe there aren't many alternatives near you. Perhaps you have uncertainty about attending private school (see our article Myths and Misconceptions about Private Schools). However, it's important to remember that not only do you have a choice in which high school your child attends, but this choice is important.

The function of a high school is not only to educate your child, but also to provide a supportive environment for your teen to grow and develop. Schools are supposed to help prepare your child for life after high school - be that college, technical school, or working. 

So while considering the choices of schools, there are several factors to think about.

FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A HIGH SCHOOL


1. CLASS SIZES 

The first thing to consider is class sizes. The average public school class size in the USA is 24 students per teacher, while the average private school class has fewer than 20. However, many private schools strive for a smaller teacher-student ratio, with many hovering between 8-10 students per teacher, and some getting as low as three or four.
 
Why does class size matter for high schools?
Class size matters because the size of your teenager's class will determine how much help and one-on-one attention they can get from the teacher. If they have trouble with a question or concept, the class size at their school can be the determining factor between them getting extra help or having to simply struggle through.


2. SCHOOL VALUES 

What each school values can form a key part of your child's school experience. Does the school value high academic performance at all costs, or does it put more emphasis on mental wellbeing? Is it a school that strives to maintain a certain image, or do they care more about fostering each student’s individual interests? Even something as basic as figuring out how much emphasis each school places on homework can make a difference to your teen's experience in high school.

At Providence Country Day School, for instance, we aim to inspire lives of engaged citizenship in an inclusive community that values the unique strengths of all students. By valuing community engagement, diversity, hard work, and honesty, we can help foster teenagers into inspiring, capable, and confident young adults.

3. CORE CURRICULUM

The core curriculum of each school should play a significant part in deciding what school your child should go to. Is it a school that requires arts classes, or do they place more value on physical education? Do you know if your child will be taking the four core classes (History, English, Math and Science) every year, or will they have more choice as they get older?

Choosing a school with a curriculum well suited for your teen will help them to be engaged and interested in their classes and school life. If your teen is interested in science, why not try to find a school with a rigorous science program and science opportunities? Or, if your teen has a more artistic bent, many schools offer impressive arts programs alongside their core curriculum.

4. THE INDIVIDUAL NEEDS OF YOUR CHILD

The main factor in deciding which high school would be best for your teen is your teen. You should familiarize yourselves with all the available options for your family: is a high school diploma the right way to go, or would your child do better going for the International Baccalaureate? Is a traditional high school the way to go, or would your child do better at a technical school? How much help will your teenager need with organization, homework, and understanding the subject matter?

The only people who can answer these questions are you, your family, and your teenager. Have a family discussion, and think through all the options.

If you are considering sending your child to a private high school, like Providence Country Day, and want to know if it would be the right option for your family, please contact our admissions department at admissions@providencecountryday.org.